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Choosing a school
One of the biggest mistakes people make in choosing a martial arts program
for their children is falling for the "guaranteed belt" program, (that is
aside from signing a contract.) The fact is that no one knows if their child
is going to stick with the program or not, therefore, how can anyone
guarantee belts??? Unfortunately, these instructors are willing to promote
those who keep coming, (since there is a belt test fee), but it is so that
they will keep coming. Parents are fooled into thinking their kid is
learning since they are being sold a belt every month, but the fact is,
these kids could not fight their way out of a paper bag!
Second,
there are the self-proclaimed Grand Masters that supposedly "created their
own art". That is an even bigger joke, but sadly, people fall for that
nonsense. These guys take an art that they partially learned, add some wierd
philosophy that they convinced themselves sounds good, and presto! they are
founders of a "new" method! 10 out of 10 times, these instructors will have
left their instructors from the art they are actually teaching, and it is
extremely likely to be due to THEM WANTING RANK and their instructor
requiring them to train for it.
Then there is hop-along-Sam who is in
his early 20's but has trained in more arts than an 800 year old Shaolin
monk. The Fact is, it doesn't take a seasoned martial artist to see this guy
coming..
These type of instructors can be easily identified. If you
see a bunch of kids running around with black belts, leave! There is now way
on earth that all these kids could even understand the discipline it takes
to earn a black belt. Their instructors don't even know.....
Don't
get me wrong, there are some true teachers out there that have highly
skilled kids, but these kids will have neatly tied belts and you will never
see them with one end of the belt way higher than the other. A true black
belt will know how to neatly tie his belt!
Do your homework..... and when in doubt, ask questions! Always be aware of
what you or your loved one is learning.
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